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How do you explain exactly what happens during a wet dream? but when you are awake and involuntarily a sexual thought comes across your mind and we get aroused and colorless liquid is experienced are we accountable for that too? Hope you are well. My husband is not living with me for short period of time so of course i havent been intimate. I found mensturation not too difficult to deal with as I explained it to my younger sister before she started mensturating but i was kinda freaked out at the examples of two girls you gave about massager and shower how would you help them understand that its not right? Now when i sleep in those clothes and wake up i still find them wet although i now deep its wetnes frm sprinkling as i dont recall seeing wet dream. assalaam alaikum then go on to the Islamic perspective and rulings, etc. BUT they felt too shy to even pose the question with a complete anonymous name/email. Praise be to Allah. Salaam Please show me the best way for dawah to someone who used to pray fast, etc? When I went back to bed I felt discharge do you think this discharge could be a result from the dream?? Alhamdulillah, it is good to see some of our young students of knowledge taking interest in the science of hadith and its studies. The question of womens presence cutting off prayer is one issue that Sayyida Aisha (ra) disputed, and her refutation of it is noted in Sahih Bukhari: That is true, because Aisha may Allah be pleased with her was not aware of the other hadith of the Prophet peace be upon him which stated that the woman passing in front of the man who is praying cuts off his prayer, and based on what she saw the Prophet pray towards the bed in which she was lying down in. I know there are some anti-sex psychos in the world that actually believe this, but the fact is that God made us and our bodies to operate and function in several ways, and God is nowhere near the level of obtuseness as these kind of psycho/religious fanatics. I am fortunate that your passions include sharing this material as I have benefitted from it. Sister umm reem you have said that ghusl becomes obligatory for women if they have an orgasm but according to the hadith of Prophet ghusl becomes obligatory on women if they have discharge during an orgasm and not due to orgasm without discharge.Please reply. We are even taught how to use the bathroom properly. One certainly is not expected to take ones pyjamas to a lab for chemical testing. 100% with you on talking to your children about puberty. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. 1. I also have a question: in one of the above Hadith, it said : He was asked about a man who thinks that he had an erotic dream but does not see any wetness. https://seekersguidance.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/Shower-Bathroom-Toilet-Wudu-Tahara-Ghusl-Shutterstock.jpg, https://seekersguidance.org/svg/Logo/SG_Logo_v23.svg, Key Principles Relating to Certainty, Doubt, and Baseless Misgivings (Waswasa). After that he performed wudu like that for prayer. I cant imagine anyone in their right mind saying yes. One thing to add which is relevant to the topic is that if a woman has a wet dream during her menstrual period, then she still performs ghusl from the wet dream, even if it wont make a difference in terms of performing the prayers because she isnt praying anyways, and Allah knows best. I am not an expert on this subject but I can share some of the ways that helped me but it cannot be a in a line or twoso just to give you a head start: If your children are still under 10, then it is good. Firstly, jazakAllah khair. assalam alaikum dear umm reem please help for the sake of my peace and the validity of my prayers. What if the discharge is transparent and more like any other secretion like the ones that comes from nose during flu? its normal for a woman to have vaginal discharge and its normal for a womans vagina to become more wet or lubricated when she is aroused. Im a young muslim below the age of 18 I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger. JazakAllah. As for the Hadith of Khawlah which you quoted (it is found in Sunans Ibn Majah #602 and An-Nasai #198), although it was classed as Hasan by Al-Albani (Sahih Sunan Ibn Majah #486 and Silsilah As-Sahihah #2187), it has defects in its chain: 1. 3. Asalam u alykum, i had a personal question. I am ashamed but I did not have knowledge that i am supposed to do ghuslplease do reply. These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. Most of this is cultural. in 2002, she organized and hosted the very first "Musim Women's Conference" in Houston, TX. However one day I woke up feeling sexually aroused and then I checked it up online and saw that it was wet dream. but orgasm is more than just the vaginal throbbing. Umm Sulaym (may Allaah be pleased with her), who asked the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) about a woman who sees a dream like a man sees (i.e., an erotic dream). 1.1 what will be a ruling if I see a wet spot on my underwear, but not sure its due to wetness because of desire that only breaks wudu or that thing that requires ghusl? MEN: Also, she says she would slip away-how is that not passing? The question of womens presence cutting off prayer is one issue that Sayyida Aisha (ra) disputed, and her refutation of it is noted in Sahih Bukhari: The things which annul the prayers were mentioned before me. What good is a manual when its instructions become obsolete? Shes moving. in this case its better to perform ghusl since shes uncertain of the wetness. What I worry about is, as we lie down during a nap, especially when its short, may be the sexual discharge is gathered inside but didnt flow out yet as it happens in standing position and if we urinate it will flow out with urine and we will never see/feel it and will think we dont need a ghusl while we actually need it. knowing 100% women are reading what you just wrote. :o) And yes, we can get obsessive at times, and that is also not good. Ruling on Wadiy (thick white fluid which comes out after passing urine), Traces of Semen Remained on His Leg after Ghusl, Discharged Transparent Liquid after Rubbing Penis: Does It Necessitate Ghusl or Just Ablution, He Is Not Sure About the Discharge Whether it is Mathiyy or Otherwise, About to Get Married and Has Whispers about Semen, Religions, Sects and Da'wah (Call to Islam), Jinaayaat (Criminology) and Islamic Judicial System, Islamic Politics and International Affairs, Medical Issues, Media, Culture and Means of Entertainment. I the morning when I woke up I saw a spot of discharge on my liner, it had dryed but it looked like a thin and light yellow discharge. Do not wait until your daughter asks you, because she may never ask you. Light sprinkling in ones underwear has only been recommended for those with neurotic misgivings who are constantly afraid of urine exiting their body as it allows them to assume that any moisture felt in their underwear is from the sprinkling and not urine. Please what I want to know is Alhamdullialh, the fact that you actually brought up this issue with the girls and apologized to them shows courage and bravery on your part and i am sure it must mean A LOT to those girls whether they express it or not.. Ive been thinking about this post for some time now. My lack of interest or your lack shouldnt take away from those who are interested. (islam-qa.com). - Having wet dream without ejaculation: If one has a wet dream but does not find any traces of ejaculation, there is no need for ghusl in this case either. Also as for my doubt on having wet dream I want to ignore it as I feel if I should perform ghusl, same thing might happen again tommorow. JAZAKILLAH. I wake up and i feel little extra virginal discharge but read somewhere that if the fluid is not excessive, excessive meaning on clothing as such, then GHUSL is not mandatory. )then carry on the conversation from there on to telling them about the changes they may see, in future, in their bodies and how it is normal, and what they should do when it happens. The last thing to note is that in the case when a person is praying in congregation behind the Imam, then the sutrah of the Imam is sufficient for everyone praying behind him and they all dont have to put a sutrah in front of them and if some one passes in front of them then they should not stop him and he does not cut off their prayer, because they are praying behind the Imam and the sutrah of the Imam is considered a sutrah for those praying behind him, so it is enough for the Imam to pray towards a sutrah only, and if there is a need then people can pass in front of those praying behind the Imam in congregation without cutting off their prayer. Firstly and most importantly, she should make istiaadha (seek Allahs protection by saying Aoodhobillahi minash shaytaan-ir-rajeem). Registering ones marriage necessary as per Shariah. How much value and peace of mind such information could add to these young people. Just to clarify, Umm Salamah ra. The bottom line is that if one is sure that what one sees is not sperm then one does not have to do anything provided that no wet dream was seen. satisfied. :). Salaam, please take a look at the following link you will find the hadith that you are looking for and its authenticity: http://hadithcheck.blogspot.com/2010/11/sahih-water-of-man-vs-water-of-woman.html.

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